The first chapters of the book are really effective at laying out what CN is but after a while I noticed in ALL of the examples the man is the CN and the woman is the non-CN. Would have been great to get perspective from what it looks like from the opposite gender. There also is copious amount of “Girl, you are so awesome and beautiful” type validation that I just began skim-reading through the chapters towards the end.

This book put language to things I have been feeling and experiencing for years!!

This book came into my life at the perfect moment. I’ve cried, laughed and filled my south with these words. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. To my dear friend, Joy, thank you also forgot the recommendation. 123

This book confirmed all my suspicions that I recently survived a 20+ year CN marriage.

This book came to me at an ideal time in my healing journey. I was married to a CN for almost 10 years and got so much out of this loving, informative, supportive book. I especially appreciated when Debbie emphasized over and over agin how this is not our fault and that CN’s are drawn to people who are exactly like me and that, post CN, we can heal and live lives full of genuine, authentic love. Thank you, your book is a healing gift!

I bought this book in hopes to find some answers and it provided me with a lot of clarity. After my unique experience, I didn’t think I could find anything to show me that might hunches were valid. Although there were some things that weren’t spot on, there was a lot of info that was really helpful in my journey to healing. If you have a hunch that you know and have been affected by a covert narcissist, buy this book.